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Why We Need to Lead with Soul

Updated: Jan 28



Copyright 2024 Tamice Spencer-Helms



The Crisis of Leadership and the Call for Soulful Leadership


The world is unraveling before our eyes. Geopolitical instability, climate catastrophe, systemic oppression, and a breakdown of trust in institutions have created a leadership crisis at every level—political, corporate, and spiritual. People are exhausted, fragmented, and searching for something deeper than surface-level solutions.


What we are witnessing is not just a failure of policies or institutions—it is a failure of imagination, a diseased way of seeing and being that has distorted leadership into a tool of control rather than a vehicle for collective liberation.


This moment demands something different. It requires Soulful Leadership—a leadership rooted in internal capacity, intentional spirituality, interpersonal resonance, and integrated identity. It is not about power, efficiency, or optics; it is about wholeness, regulation, and deep connection. It is the antidote to the dysfunction, dysregulation, disparity, and disconnection that plague our world today.


The Social Ills Soulful Leadership Confronts


Diseased Imagination: The Root of Oppression and Toxic Leadership


At the core of our social dysfunction is a diseased imagination—one that distorts self-perception, reinforces hierarchical thinking, and fuels binary-induced shame. Leaders shaped by empire and scarcity fail to imagine alternative ways of leading, perpetuating cycles of harm.

• Diseased imagination allows oppression to seem inevitable rather than constructed.

• It justifies power hoarding, exclusion, and dehumanization.

• It convinces leaders that efficiency matters more than human flourishing.


Soulful Leadership confronts diseased imagination by cultivating ethical imagination—one that envisions possibility, interconnectedness, and the sacred dignity of all people.


Disconnection: The Fragmentation of Leadership


Modern leadership has become transactional—focused on output rather than connection. This leads to trust erosion, isolation, and a failure to build collective power.

• Political leaders treat constituents as numbers, not people.

• Religious leaders preach about community while reinforcing hierarchical distance.

• Corporate leaders extract labor without cultivating well-being.


Soulful Leadership restores connection by fostering interpersonal resonance—relationships built on trust, attunement, and shared vision. It resists efficiency culture in favor of deep, meaningful collaboration.


Dysregulation: The Failure of Emotional Intelligence in Leadership


Leaders who lack internal regulation lead from a place of reactivity, fear, and control. Instead of responding with wisdom, they lash out, suppress, or manipulate.

• Politicians fuel outrage cycles rather than cultivating solutions.

• Religious leaders use dogma to suppress discomfort rather than engage complexity.

• Organizational leaders prioritize compliance over psychological safety.


Soulful Leadership cultivates internal capacity—the ability to regulate emotions, embody wisdom, and move through challenges without projecting harm onto others.


Disparity: The Exclusion of Marginalized Voices


Power structures have historically excluded Black, Indigenous, queer, and nonbinary leaders, reinforcing racial, gender, and economic inequities.

• White, cishet, male leadership remains the default.

• Marginalized leaders are expected to assimilate rather than lead authentically.

• Gatekeeping ensures power remains in the hands of the privileged.


Soulful Leadership disrupts this by centering integrated identity—where leaders bring their full selves into leadership rather than suppressing parts of their identity for acceptance.


Dysfunction: Toxic Leadership and the Avoidance of Accountability


Toxic leadership thrives on avoidance, burnout, and unchecked power. It refuses to engage self-reflection, communal accountability, or transformation.

• Burnout culture normalizes overwork rather than sustainability.

• Leaders avoid hard conversations, choosing performative allyship over real change.

• Accountability is seen as a threat rather than an opportunity for transformation.


Soulful Leadership embraces accountability as sacred. It prioritizes sustainability over burnout, truth-telling over comfort, and transformation over stagnation.


The Pillars of Soulful Leadership


1. Internal Capacity: The Foundation of Self-Regulation


Leadership must begin within—by developing the internal capacity to regulate emotions, embody wisdom, and challenge harmful narratives.


Without this foundation:

  • Leaders react rather than respond.

  • They project their wounds rather than reflect on them.

  • They control rather than empower.


Internal Capacity = Emotional, spiritual, and somatic regulation in the face of life’s challenges.


2. Interpersonal Resonance: Cultivating Ethical Relationality


Transactional leadership is dead. People are longing for connection, authenticity, and leaders who can hold space for collective transformation.


Soulful Leadership fosters deep, ethical relationships built on trust, attunement, and mutual transformation.


Interpersonal Resonance = Relationships that inspire action and nurture authenticity.


3. Integrated Identity: Leading from Wholeness


Leadership that requires self-betrayal is unsustainable. Leaders must integrate their contradictions, fears, and complexities rather than suppress them.


When leaders fail to integrate their own wounds:

  • They project them onto others.

  • They lead from insecurity and fear.

  • They reinforce exclusionary hierarchies.


Integrated Identity = Living as a whole, authentic person who fosters inclusion and inspires resilience.


4. Intentional Spirituality: The Source of Vision & Ethical Grounding


Without a spiritual and ethical grounding, leadership becomes rootless, reactive, and short-sighted.


Soulful Leadership requires:

  • Somatic and soulful practices that cultivate discernment.

  • Wisdom traditions that guide ethical decision-making.

  • A commitment to liberation rather than domination.


Intentional Spirituality = Connecting to self, source, and story to sustain visionary leadership.


The Future of Leadership Must Be Soulful


The world is not suffering from a lack of leaders—it is suffering from a lack of Soulful Leadership.

• We don’t need more technocrats—we need leaders with imagination.

• We don’t need more influencers—we need leaders with depth.

• We don’t need more control—we need leaders who cultivate freedom.


Soulful Leadership rejects empire’s values of domination, scarcity, and exclusion. It restores connection, fosters regulation, and creates belonging.


To lead without soul is to lead from fear, dysfunction, and hierarchy.


To lead with soul is to lead with wholeness, wisdom, and liberation.


The choice is ours.

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